Hindu New Year:- Hindu
New Year is celebrated at different times of the year
by people of different states. Many regions have different calendars with
some starting in March while others begin at the time of Diwali,
the
festival of lights in autumn. Andhra Pradesh, Karnataka and Maharashtra
states celebrate New Year on the different
days called ugadi in andhra pradesh. Hosavarsha in Karnataka, but West Bengal,
Assam, Tamil Nadu and some parts of coastal Karnataka celebrate the
New Year at different time (April 14). The names
of the new year vary also. For example Bengali people call their new
year as Poila Boishak and Assamese people call it Bihu. Marathi people
call new year Gudi Padwa while Kannadigas & Telugu
people call new year Ugadi. Tamil people call their new year as
Varusha Pirapu. People from coastal Karna (14th of April).
People from other northern states celebrate Holi as their New Year day
which is first day of first month Chaitra according to Hindu calendar.
The Hindu new year is also celebrated in Nepal in the month of April, usually
falling on the 14th of the month. Nepal is the only Hindu country
(now a secular nation) where the Hindu calendar,
known as Bikrama Sambat, is the official calendar.
Fasting:- Fasting
is very common among most Hindus. They Fast on certain days of
the week based on their belief and to appease certain deities. Most fasting
Hindus abstain from eating meat and only live on fruits
and milk. Some people refrain from using edible salts in the preparation
of the meal and have it only one time on the day. There is a month called
Shravan or Savan when Hindus fast for the whole month and abstain
from eating any form of meat. Also they fast during the holy days like
Ganesh Chaturthi (Chauth), Shivaratri, Rama Navami and Navaratri. Some
people view fasting as a form of penance (tapasya) or alternatively as a means
to develop a close bond with the Supreme Being. The purpose for fasting (tapasya)
was instituted into the religion with a twofold purpose.
The first purpose was to instill a sense of discipline in the followers, since
disciplined lives are believed to be most productive. The second
reason was to use these fasting days as a form of 'body cleansing'.
For instance, on certain fasting days, people usually eat only fruit throughout
the day, followed by one meal thus leading to a healthy lifestyle. Additionally,
in the early centuries when Hindus were beginning to gain identity
in the religion, there was disparity among the rich and the poor (which
continues to exist in cultures all over
the world) and fasting was a way for 'resource sharing' and to ensure
that no one was claiming more rights
on scarce resources like grains and other crop, merely because of their
economic advantage. The Hindu religion does not require
or mandate its followers to fast, it only proposes these suggestions as a
way of life.
Marriage:- Wedding
ceremonies and rituals vary in Hinduism. Most Hindu
parents look for a prospective match
for their children from their own
community or caste. The ritual of matching the
prospective's jathakam or
janampatri (Hindu horoscope) with the help of a holy
priest is also widely
practiced by many Hindus. Modern day couples usually approve each
other
before getting the elders of the family approve their 'arranged' marriage.
The
important difference between a Hindu marriage and other types of marriage
is
that, Hindu marriage is a 3-party contract, as much as it is
a 2-party contract in the western civilization. The
third party that needs to approve the marriage is essentially the elders of
the family representing the interest of the clan. In today's
India, with the social evolution, the approvals of elders and
family are slowly becoming a formality. Also, the
marriages between different community and castes
are becoming quite common and frequent. Hindu
marriage ceremonies are very colorful and elaborate. Families of the bride
and the groom hold numerous festivities to celebrate the wedding.
Marriage without a Brahmin priest was traditionally not regarded as
a "religiously accepted marriage" in Hindu society. In contemporary
times, lower caste priets such as the "Pandaram"
order have performed marriage ceremonies
that are acceptable in society. Saptapadi
is an important ritual performed during the weddin g in which the bride
and the groom circumambulate a sacred fire, known as agni, seven
times. As the inheritance of the family wealth was by
the males only, girls who would move out to live with
another family after marriage, were given a fair share
of the family wealth as dowry. However,
it should be noted here that there is nothing in the Hindu
scriptures that makes references to dowry. This is a man-made tradition and
is not condoned by the religion. With the
modernization of Hindu society, some eligible bachelors started
to see this as a demandable contribution from the bride's father. The practice
of demanding a dowry is still prevalent in some parts of India and sometimes
the bride's family or the bride gets harassed by the
groom's family for this. Dowry formed an integral part of Hindu marriage until
it was rendered unlawful by the Indian government in 1961.
This happens more in south India basically Andra Pradesh,
Tamil Nadu states. Dowry is legal if it represents "stri-dhana"
i.e. a girl's share of the parents' wealth, given voluntarily by the
parents. In some parts of Indian society, the dowry system
is getting phased out and regarded as
a disgraceful act. Education programs, women's outreach groups and media-based
awareness have contributed to the reduction of dowry related issues, making
the practice of mandatory dowries in marriages less significant
in contemporary Hindu society.
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